“A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future, and accepts you just the way you are. “
The Power of Words
It is no kidding when they said that words have their own meaning, to which I thought of the word: old, as… old as this word might be… it could be quite powerful for example: say if you said that this chair is old, or that person is old, people would not take offence, even if you compare: this person is old and that person is new, the people would not be offended, however, with just a twist, as saying: this person is old and that person is young.
It is amazing how language works and yet how a simple plain ordinary word such as old were matched up with another word it could create a positive or negative and compliment or insult towards someone.
from what I learn over the past choose your words carefully!
quote of the moment
nice quote to reflect on..
“God created the world in seven days. He placed the most beautiful things in front of us. So to all of us living in this world, no matter what you’ve experienced in the past, as long as you know how to appreciate it all, everything around you will be the most beautiful.”
Richard Li
A lot of people always wonder why Richard Li could make so much money, they have all these different theories, but I just wonder… while those people are doing nothing, what is he doing? working. working from 8:00 am to 10:00 pm … that is like 14 hours a day! yet people don’t realize this, they think that he doesn’t do anything and just gain money… I find the
And people keep complaining that he isn’t responsible, if he really wasn’t, than why else would he still be in PCCW? shouldn’t he just dump the company and open another one?
When he wanted to sell his shares, people said that he didn’t want to be responsible for the company anymore, but if that were true, than why would he still put in so much effort to expand and make PCCW a better company? and instead, just slack off after the sell failed? and much more… why is trying to buy back shares and privatize the company?
tags
I am reluctant to using tags and categories, when I first used wordpress I played a lot of categories (tags didn’t exist back than) I would carefully organize them into perfect categories, but now, I have given up on putting entries into categories or even tagging them, perhaps I am taking this function for granted as some blogs such as xanga does not provide this function.
I know I would certainly regret this in the future when I have to find a post… but… what to do?… maybe for my spring cleaning… and when I have time… I’ll organize this.
Quote of the Moment
“A wise girl kisses but doesn’t love, listens but doesn’t believe, and leaves before she is left” – Marilyn Monroe
long distance relationships

I don’t understand… people always say if they could choose they would avoid long distance relationships (or for short long d-ing)
I understand it will be painful to part from someone whom you love, but wouldn’t that be a great opportunity to test yourself and the other person.
Through long d-ing wouldn’t it enhance the relationship as trust and faith in the other person plays a big role?
besides, wouldn’t long d people treasure each other more as they realize the value of being able to see each other which might be as seldom as others.

although I hate to say it, no pain no gain, if you haven’t gone through the suffering of pain, how can you learn to enjoy the gain? if a couple were to survive a long d relationship and got married, I think they would benefit from this long d relationship for the rest of their lives as they know what it feels like to lose the other.
so saying, I still think those who have decided to make long distance relationships a reality are extremely brave, it is hard, tough… but I think you could still benefit and learn from it.
sorry, I know my thoughts are scattered I just wrote based on thoughts on the top of my head… and I do not have enough time to edit… please forgive … and forget
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think different or have comments? post them here
in a year..
a list of things that would possibly happen during this time next year…
- I’ll be graduating
- I’ll have to start looking for jobs
- hopefully (cross fingers) get/have a boyfriend and finally be in a relationship
-I will have to decide if I will do research with my prof/supervisor or do a co-op for a semester in a New Media company or work…or …
why couldn’t I choose a concentration/major which has graduate school options?… in a year… scoffs
-I will have to decide if I will stay in Toronto or move immediately to Hong Kong
so much decisions
Dreaming… permitted?
Had a lucrative conversation with Sunny… led me to thinking that it is the right time to write about thing
when we are not doing something or something that we don’t enjoy doing, we start to dream XD but I like dreaming…
the reality is too horrid sometimes, the only way we could gain hope is by dreaming :S
(please understand the briefness of this… if you read my xanga it will all make sense
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2009
I think this school year flew by quite fast… 2008 was really fast but compared to 2009… its not nearly as fast.
maybe it is due to my busy-ness through church, school, fellowship, internship, projects, etc. it made it seem that I have already returned to school for almost 1 and a half month of school (but it really only feels like 3 weeks)
I wonder if there is really new hope for 2009?

