Archive for May, 2008

Ranking systems

I wish that if I had the ability to read minds, wouldn’t it be perfect? Just caught up with a few Fairy Odd Parents episode (from Nickelodeon) and Timmy decided to wish that he could read minds, yet, as usual, something goes wrong.

This lead me to think, wouldn’t it be wonderful if we all knew where we stood in each other’s hearts? like, for real, say, you know that you are always your boyfriend’s 2nd priority to his mother or 3rd to his job, or, you are your mother’s first priority, etc. Would that be great? There was once a saying: Curiosity killed the cat, but let me add in but not knowing before hand is more… painful?

why? because say you always thought you were your boyfriend’s 1st priority, but you later find out that you aren’t, wouldn’t that be more brutal than if you say know already?

just sharing my silly 2 cents around

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Earthquake in China

For those who are unaware of the Earthquake in China (courtesy of the Red Cross)

China
Photo courtesy Reuters AlertNet

A major earthquake measuring 7.8 on the Richter scale jolted Wenchuan County, Aba Prefecture in southwest China’s Sichuan Province on May 12, causing staggering destruction.

Latest official figures indicate that over 12,000 people are feared dead and tens of thousands are injured or missing.

there lot of people in China who still need our help. Yes you might not have the financial power to make donation but every little your care is count.

What you could do:

1. According to a link Sophie sent: by Adding the rainbow “(R)” on your msn (live) messenger as part of your display name, MSN will donate 0.20 (RMB?) to the earthquake disaster.

As Sophie puts: A convenience to be done at hand, can make a difference.

Link to the Official website: http://info.msn.com.cn/caihong/rainbow.html

2. Prayer, never underestimate the power of prayer, God is always there to listen to our cries, sorrows, etc.

OR: if you have the Cash:

(taken from Red Cross website) Canadians wishing to make a financial donation may give online at www.redcross.ca, call 1-800-418-1111 or contact their local Canadian Red Cross office. The 24-hour toll free line accepts Visa, MasterCard and American Express. Cheques should be made payable to the Canadian Red Cross, earmarked “China Earthquake” and mailed to the Canadian Red Cross National Office, 170 Metcalfe Street, Suite 300, Ottawa, Ontario, K2P 2P2.

Donate Now!

In-kind donations of food, clothing and other items, while well intentioned, are not the best way to help those in need. There are tremendous processing and transportation costs involved in shipping these items to beneficiaries. Local purchases of food and clothing are more culturally appropriate and effective. Red Cross supplies can be purchased in the immediate area, thereby reducing transportation costs. Cash transfers to the affected region provide the optimum flexibility to our Red Cross colleagues so they can meet the most urgent needs.

Please help.

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Happy Birthday, Emily

(I rarely do this, but I guess I will)

Really wish you a wonderful year my cousin Emily ^^

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Lessons on Life

“There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge
things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look
at a pear tree that was a great distance away.

The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in
summer, and the youngest son in the fall.

When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe
what they had seen.

The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted.

The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise.

The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so
sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.

The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping
with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they
had each seen but only one season in the tree’s life.

He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season,
and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come
from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it’s winter, you will miss the promise of your spring,
the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.”

Moral lessons:

Don’t let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.

Don’t judge life by one difficult season.
Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later

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The beauty secret?

so who ever said that sleep was bad for you? maybe I should get myself a few zzzs :D

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HAVING LUNCH WITH GOD

A quite inexpected story that reminds me that we should always do WWJD (what would Jesus do?)?

I want to dedicate this story to Sophie. Happy Birthday Sophie! And may you always shine like Jesus :)

“A little boy wanted to meet God. He knew it was a long trip to where God lived, so he packed his suitcase with a bag of potato chips and a six-pack of root beer and started his journey.

When he had gone about three blocks, he met an old woman. She was sitting in the park, just staring at some pigeons. The boy sat down next to her and opened his suitcase. He was about to take a drink from his root beer when he noticed that the old lady looked hungry, so he offered her some chips. She gratefully accepted it and smiled at him.

Her smile was so pretty that the boy wanted to see it again, so he offered her a root beer. Again, she smiled at him. The boy was delighted! They sat there all afternoon eating and smiling, but they never said a word.

As twilight approached, the boy realized how tired he was and he got up to leave; but before he had gone more than a few steps, he turned around, ran back to the old woman, and gave her a hug. She gave him her biggest smile ever.

When the boy opened the door to his own house a short time later, his mother was surprised by the look of joy on his face. She asked him, “What did you do today that made you so happy?” He replied, “I had lunch with God.” But before his mother could respond, he added, “You know what? She’s got the most beautiful smile I’ve ever seen!”

Meanwhile, the old woman, also radiant with joy, returned to her home. Her son was stunned by the look of peace on her face and he asked, “Mother, what did you do today that made you so happy?” She replied! “I ate potato chips in the park with God.” However, before her son responded, she added, “You know, he’s much younger than I expected.”

Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime! Embrace all equally!

Have lunch with God ……. bring chips.”

God still sits on the throne the devil is a liar. You may be going through a tough time right now but God is getting ready to bless you in a way that only He can. Keep the faith. My instructions were to pick four people that I wanted God to bless, and I picked you.

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Reality or Fantasy?

“Wait for the guy that pursues you, the one that makes every day seem magical, the guy that makes you feel so amazing about yourself and can make you smile every minute you are with him. Wait for the guy who shows you off to his friends when you are in sweats, but appreciates when you get all dolled up for him. Wait for the guy who puts you at the center of his universe, because obviously he will be at the center of yours.”

After experiencing numerous disappointments during these past 2 months, I come across this phrase… is this possible? It most certainly looks like an optimist’s view. If this were reality, the suicidle rate would certainly decrease, if this were fantasy, I feel sorry for those who still believe in this.

If you asked me if I believed in this two months ago, I would probably smile and say yes. But after what I had to face during these past few weeks, all I could do is shrug, psh and say, uh, no.

After reading and rereading this simple paragraph, I really wonder, do some people experience/experiencing this? it is probably just me who doesn’t.

A phrase suddenly pops up in my mind: no body said that God was fair, but He is certainly just.

but why must I be in this unfairness?

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